Having issues do reduce your chances of getting a spouse, as there are traits men want from women (and vice versa).
While I or anyone can always pick a few anecdotes of highly unlikely marriages, I don’t think it’s wise to depend so much on luck.
On the other hand, you can also increase your chances of marriage, summed up in “only” three things to do:
- For those attributes you’re already good at, keep it up! For example, if you’re a good listener, see if your crush appreciates it.
- For those attributes you’re not so good at, make effort to improve at least some of it, gradually.
- For those attributes you’re terrible at, you’ll need to fix it. For example, if you’re rude and mean to (some) people, it’s time to learn how to be polite and compassionate.
While I said “only”, it’s actually a lifetime work. But you need to start now.