Psychology
Being Kind is Not Enough…
I never thought living should be difficult. At least not until I find that common sense isn’t always logical. And even more when Are Manners Logical or Superficial? on Psychology Today explained that manners aren’t always common sense:
Common sense tells me the most efficient way to ingest soup is to tip the bowl and drink it. In fact, unless you have a spoon that’s specifically contoured for the bowl you’re using, that’s the only way to get every last drop. And common sense tells us not to be wasteful.
Tips Ampuh Mencuci Pikiran Kotor, Jorok, Porno pula’!
MAAF…! KAUM WANITA DILARANG MEMBACA artikel ini…
Artikel ini hanya untuk KAUM PRIA yang pikirannya sering JOROK, yang pikirannya suka ngelantur KOTOR, yang suka berkhayal PORNO, khususnya para kaum muda yang banyak sekali bertanya melalui SMS ke Radio Sonora 92.0 FM pada sesi Terapi Musik, setiap minggu malam jam 22:00-24:00
Sekali lagi maaf untuk Anda kaum wanita, kecuali bila Anda mau mengambil resiko tersebut, mungkin untuk di-forward ke teman pria Anda yang “piktor” he he…
Artikel ini juga baik sekali untuk para Ortu, dalam mengatasi putra-putra remaja Anda yang sering muncul pikiran kotor, pikiran jorok, tapi belum tahu cara efektif untuk mengatasinya. Umumnya, kita hanya melarang. Repotnya, khayalan gak bisa dilarang, gak bisa dilihat oleh orang lain he he…
Mario Teguh Golden Ways Notes #1
Jadilah pribadi yg terlalu mulia untuk ditaruh di zona tidak nyaman (contoh: miskin, bodoh)
Jika Anda ingin menjadi pribadi yg menarik maka jadilah pribadi yg tertarik kepada org lain
Berdamailah dengan yg sudah terjadi, tugas kita adalah menjadikan besok tidak lebih buruk dari yang sudah terjadi
Untuk tau kita benar ato salah, cek dengan org lain, sehingga tidak ada over conception (apaan sih ini?)
Contoh: kamu bicara dgn org ndeso yg ga bisa baca tulis dgn bhs inggris, jd org itu ga bs ngerti apa yg kmu sampaikan
Hanya org2 yg direncanakan naik yg mendapat gangguan turun
Contoh: kmu naik pangkat jd manager, jd smakin tajir, tpi jadi hoby clubbing
“I could’ve spent more time worshipping You…”
SacredLearning.org is an Islamic web site Parama Danoesubroto recently shared with me which, among other useful materials, contains general talks by Shaykh Husain Abdul Sattar (as freely downloadable audios).
Parama initially made me interested with a talk titled “Wisdom of Wealth” which is excellent.
I begin to listen to the other talks. Actually I dutifully enjoy his talks that my laptop is continuously downloading all of the rest of the talks (including the right-on-time Ramadan classroom) using my trusty DownThemAll.
And then I struck gold, in Muraqabah – Step by Step Approach:
9 Most Important Quotes You Need to Know About Prophet Muhammad S.A.W.
Just read a very interesting article from Wid Brilliant about Prophet Muhammad. It’s so good and “BLINK!” me a lot so I just had to make a copy here…
Thanks a lot to Dedi Setiawan for introducing me the word “BLINK”, and Parama Danoesubroto for reminding me (again!) about this theme.
Of course *BIG* Thanks to the original writer(s)!
What prominent people say about Rasullullah Muhammad S.A.W, PBUH [Peace Be Upon Him]
Top 9 Habits of Highly Successful Entrepreneurs
Parama W. Danoesubroto, a friend of mine, recently shared a bit of his vast business-savviness. It’s great enough that I’d like to share it here, both with my future self and with you the cool person (yes! YOU) who read this blog. Extra-gladly he’s willing to license his ideas as Creative Commons (oh so geeky!).
So, from this point below it’ll be his words, not mine:
Here’s what I’ve learned if I wanted to keep on continuing to be an entrepreneur.
These are just my values that I keep for myself. This might not apply or be true to other people.
Organization-based Programming
Proposal: *
Organization-based programming = Organize agents, objects, and messages exchanged between them, to work on a goal or a process (i.e. “desired outcome”).
Inspiration:
Lemmings, DNA, construction sites, Impossible Creatures.
Definitions:
- Agents are actors that have less predictable behavior.
- Objects are actors than have predictive behavior.
- Both agents and objects are actors.
- Actors can send and receive messages.
- Messages contain content and language. Message content, can be actors themselves (meaning code, not just data).
Intuitively Probabilistic Programmer [wannabe]
You know what, I get the feeling that I’m somehow “destined” to be a “probabilistic guy”
(it has a spiritual touch)
A few minutes ago I was thinking that “IT” is simply about reducing ambiguity. which is basically increasing specificity. Problem is, the world is inherently uncertain.
And IT usually doesn’t cope well with this that changes a lot (hence the need for BPMs and such). IT is very good for things that are strictly in order, and certain, and known upfront.
The more we get to details, the more the uncertainty (and hence the ‘probability factor’) increases.
Start A Meme: Kill The Internet?

The Sad Bear 1, by Nedroid
7 Reasons the 21st Century is Making You Miserable
It turns out humans are social animals after all. And that ability to suffer fools, to tolerate annoyance, that’s literally the one single thing that allows you to function in a world populated by other people who aren’t you. Otherwise, you turn emo. Science has proven it.
Bye Bye Dear Ex-Love.
Sometimes I just need to signify that what I decided,
has been decided.
A simple message to remind myself,
that me and my ex-girlfriend has broken up
.
Farewell. And I’ll let myself continue my journey…
PS: All punctuations in this post, including the single period in the title, and the horizontal line, do have intentionally significant symbolic meanings.





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