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		<title>By: Hendy Irawan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hendy Irawan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 05:32:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow... thanks for the prompt and useful comments! Arie, Mr. Harry Sufehmi, and Singboy..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8230; thanks for the prompt and useful comments! Arie, Mr. Harry Sufehmi, and Singboy..</p>
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		<title>By: Singboy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Singboy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 01:45:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>islam what... can marry 4 lor...why bother?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>islam what&#8230; can marry 4 lor&#8230;why bother?</p>
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		<title>By: sufehmi</title>
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		<dc:creator>sufehmi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 01:35:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Re: Fahri having too many admirers, I chuckled when I read &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.indonesiamatters.com/1632/ayat-ayat-cinta/#comment-73003&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;this  comment on IM&lt;/a&gt; :

&lt;i&gt;I don’t really like the story, sounds every girls want him …. sound too good to be true.&lt;/i&gt;

Do I hear a jealousy ? :D

Anyway, it&#039;s actually pretty simple to do. A few tips from my friends :

1. Don&#039;t be a jerk

2. Don&#039;t try too hard to be popular : trying to be funny and witty too hard may end up making you looks like a jerk.

Trying too hard to be popular tend to make you unpopular instead.

3. Be nice to others : absolutely important. The world is harsh enough as it is, so everyone that&#039;s kind will bound to get more attention.

4. Be tidy &amp; clean : too many men are trying to be stylish, ended up  looking messed up instead :)

Also taking care of personal hygiene is very important to the opposite sex.

And no, you don&#039;t have to be good looking - the media has misled us on this.

Personally I think I look ugly, especially when compared to my younger brother (he&#039;s our local brad pitt). But although so, and even though I wasn&#039;t looking for a girlfriend (was too busy with my books &amp; computer, damn geek, he he), girls were approaching me.
Remember these were the 90&#039;s we&#039;re talking about, when girls are more shy than today.

In an occasion, I had to pull my casanova friend, and asked for his advice on how to proceed with that.
I was too much a nerd to know how to handle a girl (sad, I know :D )

If you ask me, I don&#039;t know exactly why either.
But, I have always been trying to do point 3. I don&#039;t like hurting others. I try to be courteous &amp;  smile to even strangers  (a colleague called me  smiling buddha - coming from him, I take that as a compliment).
Also I didn&#039;t try to be popular, but it came instead in some ways to me. Such irony.

Anyway, keep it up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Re: Fahri having too many admirers, I chuckled when I read <a href="http://www.indonesiamatters.com/1632/ayat-ayat-cinta/#comment-73003" rel="nofollow">this  comment on IM</a> :</p>
<p><i>I don’t really like the story, sounds every girls want him …. sound too good to be true.</i></p>
<p>Do I hear a jealousy ? <img src='http://www.hendyirawan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Anyway, it&#8217;s actually pretty simple to do. A few tips from my friends :</p>
<p>1. Don&#8217;t be a jerk</p>
<p>2. Don&#8217;t try too hard to be popular : trying to be funny and witty too hard may end up making you looks like a jerk.</p>
<p>Trying too hard to be popular tend to make you unpopular instead.</p>
<p>3. Be nice to others : absolutely important. The world is harsh enough as it is, so everyone that&#8217;s kind will bound to get more attention.</p>
<p>4. Be tidy &amp; clean : too many men are trying to be stylish, ended up  looking messed up instead <img src='http://www.hendyirawan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Also taking care of personal hygiene is very important to the opposite sex.</p>
<p>And no, you don&#8217;t have to be good looking &#8211; the media has misled us on this.</p>
<p>Personally I think I look ugly, especially when compared to my younger brother (he&#8217;s our local brad pitt). But although so, and even though I wasn&#8217;t looking for a girlfriend (was too busy with my books &amp; computer, damn geek, he he), girls were approaching me.<br />
Remember these were the 90&#8217;s we&#8217;re talking about, when girls are more shy than today.</p>
<p>In an occasion, I had to pull my casanova friend, and asked for his advice on how to proceed with that.<br />
I was too much a nerd to know how to handle a girl (sad, I know <img src='http://www.hendyirawan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  )</p>
<p>If you ask me, I don&#8217;t know exactly why either.<br />
But, I have always been trying to do point 3. I don&#8217;t like hurting others. I try to be courteous &amp;  smile to even strangers  (a colleague called me  smiling buddha &#8211; coming from him, I take that as a compliment).<br />
Also I didn&#8217;t try to be popular, but it came instead in some ways to me. Such irony.</p>
<p>Anyway, keep it up.</p>
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		<title>By: sufehmi</title>
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		<dc:creator>sufehmi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 00:59:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;may Indonesians&lt;/I&gt;

maNy Indonesians.... doh, sorry :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>may Indonesians</i></p>
<p>maNy Indonesians&#8230;. doh, sorry <img src='http://www.hendyirawan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: sufehmi</title>
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		<dc:creator>sufehmi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 00:50:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;Using Indonesian actors as a replacement for foreign people just doesn’t cut it, and makes me a bit annoyed.&lt;/i&gt;

Interesting, made me remember of an observation I made a while -- did you realize that may Indonesians looks like foreigners ?

When I was in UK, I&#039;ve been mistaken as all sorts of races - even as Mexican  :D

So yeah, I think Carissa as Maria &amp; Rianti as Aisha are okay.

Also if you read Hanung&#039;s blog, you&#039;ll find out that he&#039;s having problems finding a suitable egyptian actress. So he ended up choosing indonesian ones instead.

Nice review btw.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Using Indonesian actors as a replacement for foreign people just doesn’t cut it, and makes me a bit annoyed.</i></p>
<p>Interesting, made me remember of an observation I made a while &#8212; did you realize that may Indonesians looks like foreigners ?</p>
<p>When I was in UK, I&#8217;ve been mistaken as all sorts of races &#8211; even as Mexican  <img src='http://www.hendyirawan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>So yeah, I think Carissa as Maria &amp; Rianti as Aisha are okay.</p>
<p>Also if you read Hanung&#8217;s blog, you&#8217;ll find out that he&#8217;s having problems finding a suitable egyptian actress. So he ended up choosing indonesian ones instead.</p>
<p>Nice review btw.</p>
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		<title>By: arie</title>
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		<dc:creator>arie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Mar 2008 19:50:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>waiting for its youtube version.

however in most non muslim lands, islam is identical to blood / terrorism / bomb / kill / allahu akbar / primitive etc.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>waiting for its youtube version.</p>
<p>however in most non muslim lands, islam is identical to blood / terrorism / bomb / kill / allahu akbar / primitive etc.</p>
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